If an egg is broken due to outside force-inside life ENDS but if it breaks from inside-Life BEGINS…gr8 thin…always begin from inside.

Our soul is also like an egg…….it’s so delicate and sensitive that even a small remark of some1 hurt us and destroy the life in us. I was very shy and sensitive person, many time small comment, remarks or bad event make me miserable. I cry for long and spoil my mood and others too. Gradually I learnt that, why I should allowed some outside force to end the life within me, coz true nature of mine is happiness. All the learning of life and little knowledge I have, I started applying in my life and I feel stronger…….now whatever happens the inside force is so strong & peaceful that it can break the darkness and life BEGINS from the dead-end.

It’s not me, who is so grate my friends we all have that power, only thing we have to start from within. Noone come to us n tell this only we and by ourself can make the things better.

I wish you the strength & peace to all my of you my friends…..let’s start from within.

Love u all….

Vibhs

P.S. Picture is for making above heavy thing lighter n yeh…….n also b vegetarian.. ha..ha…ha…(joking)

Hey friends,

Wishing u happiness for life time, from the all friendship day quots I love the most is “The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with - never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation  you've ever had.  that’s what FRIENDSHIP means to me.

Love,

Vibhs

Dear friends,

Nothing happen to me or to anyone in my family in recent boom blast in Ahmedabad then why we are shocked, why there is pain, why we are not feeling the happiness that we are saved? It’s not only me or my family’s feeling but somewhat all here is having the same emotions. I thank God that people have kept the communal harmony in this hard time and it shows that there is no difference within any community coz terrorist doesn’t belong to any religion and I pray almighty that this undersatanding remains to all the people.

Even animal love each other………don’t u think terrorist are even far down to most worst creature.

I request you all to pray for peace in my(OUR) city, state, country and to entire world.

In prayers,

Vibhs

p.s: there is no color in blog coz all seems black.........

My Dear Friends,

Missed you all very much, I was visiting your iLands as and when get time but was missing the regular interaction with all of you and the most important thing… was missing sharing life with you. With lots of work life was running me Ulta-pulta….So again having hand on writing something of my own and starting from recent nice thought comes across to me…

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

…so very true, hai na? for complains we always have many things like we lost, we fail, we haven’t get that coz we realize the value of the things which went off from us.There is always two sides of the coin, we never able to realize the value of the things until it arrives to us. We cry on what was already gone and stuck up with that grief somuch tat we forget to welcome or atleast smile on the things/person/event which entered in life and giving us pleasure in present. In this break I was reading my diary and when I was reading the past and seeing the present I realize strongly that whatever is best my God has given me….what was in past tat was required to move then only these new spring get space to blossom. I want to share, My friend always accept the change, responsibilities as it comes, once u do it then only able to know what pleasure you were missing…..past can be golden and may had broke you but living it now in present is more important and easy to live.

Opps….am I sound boring with lots of philosophy after the break???? Hope not…wish you all very sweet, smiley and full of love life always….

Urs

Vibhs

Dear Friends,

Reading many things on Global Warming on iLand so here is little contribution from my side…it’s simply and even we all can do it……….yes or no??

22 ways to make a Difference

AT HOME:

1.          Use Energy Saving Light Bulbs

2.          Take a re-usable bag when you go shopping.

3.          Use public transport as far as possible.

4.          Switch off lights, fans and electrical appliances when not in use

5.          Turn the tap off while brushing your teeth or shaving

6.          Switch off your phone charger once your phone is charged

7.          Don’t use over sized utensils to heat small quantities

8.          Keep filters in air-conditioners clean

9.          Use task lighting, which focuses light where it is needed.

10.     Check vehicle tyre pressure periodically.

11.     Replace any worn washers/leaky faucets as soon as possible

AT OFFICE:

1.          Add to e-mails: Please consider the environment before printing any document

2.          Print double-sided

3.          Cancel print jobs if the printer is not working properly

4.          Try to partner with organization working for environment in personal capacity

5.          Avoid using disposable plastic containers, bags and cutlery for lunch

6.          Switch lights and IT equipment off when not in use

7.          Consider a car pool

8.          Shred waste-paper so that it can be recycled

9.          Keep office blind/curtains closed to improve air-conditioner efficiency

10.     Report any water leaks / malfunctioning electrical sockets to the Administration representatives.

11.     Remember that you can make a difference!

Courtesy: KPMG Accounting Firm’s Bookmark

Please be reasonable while using natural resource and let's all of us enjoing the Nature walk forever same as in Picture..... :)

Love,

Vibhs

Hello my dear i-Lander Friends,

I was almost out of the track of blogging thesedays………was occupied with one or other things and I miss you all and your lovely blog. I am sorry for not being in touch.

This is just to quickly say hello to all of you and wish you all a very nice summer.

Keep on writing blog and enjoy our own world of blogging.

Love

Vibhs

“Dua hai us rab se kabhi tumhain dard ka ehsaas na de, Pal koi aisa na guzre jab mushkilo me ham saath na de, Kisi saans me ham tumko bhule, rab hame aisi saans na de”

How to deal with our emotions? Big problem! Although we have grown older - beyond the 'teenage', we more often fail to grow beyond 'teenage' mentally. You know, our body grows in a particular sequence. In the first seven years, the physical body grows but the intellect does not grow; then up to fourteen years, the intellect grows. The period from 14 to 21 years is for emotional maturity. So the general belief is that you become physically mature, then intellectually mature and finally, you become emotionally mature..

However, many do not grow to that maturity at all. Lack of emotional maturity is always worrying about your emotions - feeling as though you are a victim of your own emotions: "Oh! I feel like this! I feel like that! What to do?" What will you do? Who cares about your feelings? Why do you worry so much about your feelings? Your feelings keep changing. Sometimes you feel bad; but the bad feeling doesn't stay with you forever. It changes and you start feeling good once again; but even that 'good' feeling does not stay forever. Nobody can feel bad or good ALL the time; the good and bad feelings come like waves. You can't stop a wave that has already arisen; nor can you make a wave rise just like that. Just as waves come and go, clouds come and go, so also emotions come and go. Waves of different emotion come. And they disappear. But we make it such a big issue: "Oh, I feel good! Oh, I feel bad! I feel this way, I feel that way, nobody cares for me…" - all these complaints keep bombarding our minds. This emotional garbage is so useless; and it is also a sign of emotional immaturity.

Emotional maturity, intellectual maturity, physical maturity; you need all these three 'maturities' to be a complete personality. Are you sharp and focused? Are you interested in learning and in growth? If yes, you have matured intellectually. And once you have matured intellectually, do not let emotional immaturity cloud your intellect. By the age of 21, you're supposed to be emotionally and physically strong, and intellectually sharp. Hence, you acquire the right to vote, because you are supposed to be mature - an adult. But this seldom happens!

But what is the big deal about your feelings? I tell you, bundle them up and throw them into the ocean! Once you are rid of your 'feelings' you can be happy, in good spirits. Just examine why your spirits go down? More likely than not because somebody said something stupid to you. And why did they say a stupid thing? Because they had some garbage they needed to throw out; and you were there, ready to catch it. And once you have caught it, you hold on to it so passionately! Come on! Wake up! Don't let your smile be snatched away by anybody!

In this world, everything cannot be perfect all the time. Even the best, the greatest of actions, performed with the noblest of intentions, will have some imperfections. It is but natural. Unfortunately, the tendency of our mind is to grab the imperfection and hold on to it. And in the process, we end up making our moods, our minds imperfect. Our souls reel with this nonsense.

It is imperative to get out of these cycles, and to become strong and courageous from within. And that which gives you that strength, that courage, that smile and that helps you to become unconditionally happy and loving is what is called spirituality.

Hey Friends,

With reference to my dear iLander friend Star Trekker(startrekker.rediffiland.com)’s latest blog i.e Animal Sense, I also realize that how animal and tribe are step ahead to us.

We so call intelligent creature always treat them as secondary and many times even neglected them. We don’t even feel to listen or notice the singles they give us for natural disasters coz we are so busy with our life. No time for noticing singles, we even don’t have time to smile at the person living next to us.

As STAR wrote in her blog about tuning with animal, I must say that we don’t have any tuning with mother nature or even we are not tuned with our close one for many times.

I request & pray that all of us would at least try to tune with ourself, nature and the people living around us……..am I asking something impossible? Let’s try to get TUNE!!

Have nice time

Take care n always SMILE

Love,

Vibhs

Hello friends,

I am lucky enough to have good friends who used to send me nice quotes and thoughts to increase my knowledge…….today again I received one article and from that I selected one thought to share here.

“Be wise enough to know that you don’t know anything, Be foolish enough to believe in miracles.”

Isn’t it really contradictory but really really true, I mean when I look at my life till now I wonder a lot…….miracle is not something that one fairy will come and blessed me but’s it’s a miracle of support, care and love of the people around you. Being the intelligent is not the priority of life…. See the following short philosophy…….

And the care the normal people around you, who make the real miracle in your life, their love and support to you in any condition will make you stronger enough to fight with any situation and when you come out of that phase you will realize the miracle.

This is all what I wanted to share with you all…….with you coz you are among those who made miracle in my life.

Thanks

Love,

Vibhs

"No matter what situations life throws at you...  no matter how long and treacherous your journey may seem...  Remember, there is a light at the end of the tunnel!!"

Hello friends,

Here is one enlightening thought which make me enlighten and also make me laugh, I almost fell down fm my chair when I see the picture to (keep patience till the pic upload). ……. My effort to make you laugh is successful……..isn’t it??

Love,

Vibhs